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What is our workload?
Anyone who works in a competitive industry understands the challenges they face with work-life balance and the stress they experience while managing their workloads. Whether the workload is about project deliverables, sales, keeping up with communications, networking, spending time with family, or other areas that expect your availability. All of us have the same 24 hours in a day. The more things you get involved in a day, the thinner the slices of your pie get. So what is your workload? How do you spend your time in a day, and how many of those things you do are for your family, for yourself, and for your livelihood? Take a moment, and think about them.
Why do we experience stress?
From a general understanding, stress is a physical, mental, or emotional agent that causes tension in body or mind which can be induced by external or internal sources. The body reacts to these changes with physical, mental, and emotional responses. Another way to look at stress is -- you are working in a way that is not in-line with yourself i.e., your body, mind, energies, or emotions. And your actions are causing friction within yourself. A lot of science is out there regarding the effects of stress on human physical, emotional, and mental health.
So, how does one take on workload that balances their days and minimises Stress?
Yoga and workload
How to identify stress-inducing workload?
Now take some time and analyse the list.
Go through each item and label them as below. Feel free to assign more than one label to each item.
- In the first column next to each item, mark a 'Joy' or 'J' sign next to them if you enjoy doing them even if you are not paid or appreciated for it.
- In the second column, mark a 'Happy' or 'H' sign next to the items that you enjoy doing, you get paid for them, and you also feel satisfied/appreciated for those things.
- In the third column, mark an 'Obligation' or 'O' sign next to the items that you don't enjoy doing but they are your obligations at work, in relationships, or at other places that you signed-up to do.
What is causing your stress?
Practical tips to reduce stress
Regarding work obligations:
- Agree on clear requirements and set realistic expectations for your responsibilities. If you think that you've overpromised something or you're over extending your efforts, go ahead and contact the appropriate people and reset the expectations as soon as possible.
- Towards the end of your workday, each day, take a few minutes to reflect on your day and identify the areas that were stressful for you. Think of ways you could handle those areas differently in future to make them less stressful.
- Learn to consciously delegate. The work that is causing you stress might sometimes be exciting to others. Reach out to your colleagues and see if you could delegate some of your workload to others who are interested in it.
- Prioritise your workload, and focus each day on getting the high priority items done first.
- Re-think the relationships that feel like an obligation, and those that drain your energies. Ask yourself why are you still keeping that relationship. If that relationship is not easy to let go, try and reduce the amount of time you spend in that relationship, if possible.
- Learn to communicate your needs honestly and set realistic expectations in all your relationships.
- Respect and value your need for happiness and joy in your life. Compromise as little as possible to give that away to satisfy others' needs.
- Make sure you do yogic breathing whenever you feel stressed. Breathe deep into your stomach slowly for four seconds and breathe out slowly for four seconds. Repeat 10 rounds. When you are stressed, you take shallow breaths into your chest and deprive yourself of the much needed oxygen into your body. Breathe deep into your stomach and observe the stress levels going down immediately.
- Focus on eating freshly cooked meals rather than canned foods or fast foods. Include more fresh vegetables and fruits into your diet. The life energy (Prana) we need to function stress free is available a lot more in fresh foods.
- Take regular breaks from whatever you are doing and go for short walks. Get some sun and fresh air. Sun and fresh air gives you a lot of positive life energy (Prana). And not to mention, a change of setting frequently, helps in keeping your stress under control.
- If it interests you, take up a meditation practise for 5 - 10 minutes everyday. Learning to be mindful and having the ability to observe your own thoughts and emotions is a powerful way to tackle your stress.
- Spend more time in nature. If you can't go to nature, bring it to your workplace or home. Have some natural plants at home and at work. Nature's designs are beautiful to look at and they are also powerful stress busters.
There is no easy solution that addresses stress for everyone, because the stress itself comes in varying degrees and for different reasons in each person. But if you identify the things that are causing you stress at work, and in relationships, you could work towards reducing your stress and making your days more happy and joyful.
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